Monday, September 28, 2009

Happy Belated Birthday Brothers!

So we celebrated a little late but better late than never! My wonderful brothers turned 27 on the 22nd. Happy Birthday Brothers!
Dylan loves a good birthday party! He was a big help with all those candles!
Here he is "cheesing" with daddy. (That's what he calls it).
Notice the blue icing covering his lips. This kid loves him some cake!

Thanks for coming over and celebrating with us! I have 2 amazing brothers and I am so happy Will has these 2 amazing uncles! We love you!!

Just some pics

We love our snuggle time!
Some of the newborn clothes are still a little big on him.
Hanging with Uncle J
Here is me with my hair actually fixed! I am starting to see myself under there somewhere.
Mommy and Will

Thursday, September 24, 2009

Our Labor Story

I have a few free minutes, so I wanted to take the time to write down the events of our labor day so that I don't forget the details. It was a whirlwind! (This is lengthy and don't really expect anyone to read it all).

Tuesday I had gone to the doctor and he had disappointed me by saying nothing was progressing and that the hospital was booked the following Monday/Tuesday. I had resolved myself to think that it could be the following Wed before we met this little bundle of joy.

Wednesday I felt a lot better about it and decided to be patient. I had a really good day doing a whole bunch of nothing. I literally wasted the day away. It was really nice.

We went to bed Wednesday night around 11 and Kevin and I discussed whether he should go to the ranch on Thursday morning. We decided that if he could fly in the helicopter, then he could go so that if something were to happen he could be back within an hour. Also, Wed evening my brother called me to see if I would watch Dylan (my adorable nephew) on Thursday. I never pass up an opportunity to hang out with him, so I gladly volunteered.

At 1am, I woke up to go to the bathroom, as usual. As I crawled back into bed I noticed that something felt different. Hmm. That seemed like it might have been a contraction. It was fairly light so I wasn't sure but it sure had me wide awake. I waited...and about 5 min later there was another one. Another 5-6 min another. They kept coming and they got stronger. So at 2:30 I decided to wake up Kevin. "Kevin...I'm having contractions." He was like...are you sure? Yes. So, we pulled out the computer and used this contraction tracker website that someone recommended. You hit a button and it tracks the length of each one and the distance between them.

They were all pretty consistent and they kept getting stronger...and stronger. Around 4ish I decided I should take a shower and fix my hair. I had gone curly on Wed. and my hair was looking like an afro. I knew there would be pictures taken and I couldn't be looking like that! So I showered and dried my hair. I started flat ironing and man the contractions were getting strong. I put on a little make-up and then I knew. It was time to call the doctor. So I called right around 5 and talked to the on call doctor and she said that I should head on to the hospital. Kevin was still putting his bag together and around this time I was getting miserable. I believe I said...we REALLY have to go. So he hurried.

Luckily, we only live about a couple of miles from the hospital. On the way to the hospital I texted my brother to let him know I probably couldn't watch Dylan and as we were on our way to the hospital. Sorry about that. It was about 5:40am when we arrived. Then I met my not so urgent nurse. She was very young and in NO hurry. At this point - I was dying. Like I need drugs...now. She told me to change and I could barely get changed. I crawled into the bed, barely. Then she proceeded to ask question after question after question. I was really miserable and she was not moving very quickly. She kept referring to me as "chica." "You're ok chica...you're doing a good job chica." Really. Do I look like a chica? I came really close to asking her to please not call me that anymore but I decided that at that point it would come out really really ugly and I better just stay quiet.

I wasn't really all that quiet at that point. I am sure Kevin was shocked because I rarely like to make a scene but the contractions were non-stop. As soon as one ended another began. Finally I convinced her to get someone to check me and they said that I was at a 6. They needed to get an iv in me and then I could have my epidural. Please....hurry...please.

Luckily there was another nurse who was more experienced and much more helpful. She helped me calm down some and survive the contractions. Then I finally got the blessed epidural. Oh glorious epidural! Thank you! Life was good again.

Then the baby's heartbeat was slowing. They made me take oxygen and kept turning me from side to side. I don't know - I guess it was supposed to help. Apparently a lot happened really fast. The labor progressed quickly and the getting the epidural gave poor Will a little stress.

45 minutes after they first checked me I was fully dialated plus 2. I don't really know what that means. Basically, though I went from a 6 to 10 in record time. No wonder I was in so much pain! Wow. The nurses commented that I should have come to the hospital sooner. Who knew? I heard over and over again from everyone not to go too early. I didn't want to be sent home. I did walk a good bit around the house as recommended by others. All I kept thinking was I almost didn't have time to get an epi. That would have been torture!

Once I got my epidural they called the doctor and he said he would be there in 45 min and not to push. No worries...I couldn't feel anything...at all...so I wasn't feeling the need to push.

At 7:15am the doctor was there and told me to start pushing. Well that was tough because I really couldn't feel a thing. I didn't feel any pressure or anything. I wasn't complaining but that didn't make pushing very easy. I pushed for awhile and then they turned off the epidural to see if I could at least feel some pressure. (I guess generally you have the epidural for awhile and it wears down some but mine happened so fast that it was still in full force). The doctor checked me again and little Will's face was turned in a not so optimal position. Apparently he was LOA. Basically, I couldn't push him out. After an hour of pushing the doctor said...give me 15 more min of pushing and then we'll give him some help. So, that's what we did. They used the forceps to pull him down and then he came right out on the next push. And there he was!! At 8:50am...Will Ryan came into the world!

Due to meconium being in whatever they tested they wanted to check him out right away and I didn't get to see him just yet. I had to wait. Pure torture. Kevin would go over and take some pictures and bring the camera back for me to see. He was perfect. Absolutely perfect. His poor head had some scratches and a dent from using the tools, but other than that he was in excellent health and weighed a good 7 lbs 2 oz. He was 21.25 inches long! No wonder I was so uncomfortable...he was crazy long!

And now he is home here with us. He is a week old and we are having so much fun getting to know him and learning to care for him. We can't believe how in love with him we are. I kiss his sweet cheeks so often I may chap them soon. I can't resist! We are so thankful for a healthy baby and so proud that we have been chosen to raise this beautiful child. And that is how Will Ryan made it into the world!

One Week Old

Love how he cuddles with his hand!
Big eyes!

We love these feet!
Such a long boy!
Close up!
First ride in the swing

Monday, September 21, 2009

Cuteness!

Well, I am back to blogging! I don't know how regularly I'll be doing it...but here I am for today. Whew! Being a new parent is the most exhausting and rewarding thing I have ever done. Sleep is one of things that is a bonus now not a guarantee. :) The strange thing is that I haven't minded too much...yet. I am sure the lack of sleep will catch up with me soon, but for now I am just enjoying learning everything I can to care for this amazing gift we've been given.

We are trying to nurse and we are getting there but it isn't coming easily. I have had many friends tell me to expect that, so I did. Hopefully things will level out here in a few days. I think once we get that figured out, everything else will get a lot easier.

This precious child is the sweetest, cutest child I have ever seen! I know I might be biased, but look at him! Here he is right before we headed out this morning on our first outing to the doctor.
Kevin is such a great daddy! He has been so helpful and is ready to do whatever we need to make things easier. I am so happy that he is Will's daddy!
All snug in his carseat!
Look at this cutie! Look at those long arms and legs! They are crazy long! Check out this kid's feet. They are the biggest feet I have ever seen on a baby! The toes are hilarious! I mean I think he is the cutest kid ever but his feet and toes are monkey-like! The toes are so long and curl up like nothing else!
Here is our sweet nephew Dylan meeting Will. He was so cute with him. Then...he was over him!

Thankfully we had some great helpers this past weekend. Ally and Kayse were here on Saturday and were so sweet to decorate our place in honor of Will's big arrival home. They also had a great lunch for us. It was so sweet of them to make a deal for us on his big day!

My mom (Mimi) was here on Saturday and spent the night with us and stayed with us during the day Sunday. She was a life saver! She washed everything in sight and cooked us some extra food to last a few days. She helped cuddle sweet Will to help me get some sleep. Thanks Mimi!!

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Back Home!

Resting at home has never felt so good! Brandi, Will and I were able to leave the hospital earlier this afternoon with everyone doing really well. We have been fortunate that Will has been nursing better so far today (knock on wood). It would be a huge relief to have him eating on a more normal schedule. Here's Will catching up on some sleep this morning while we were waiting to be discharged from the hospital.
Brandi used some of the down time to get Will started early with some school spirit. She thought Texas Tech might need all the fan support they can get with their big game tonight in Austin against the Longhorns.


Here's a picture of Brandi holding Will in his new baby afghan, which was crocheted by my Aunt Barbara earlier this summer. We are so blessed to have friends and family that have showered us with love and support through this whole experience.

Thankfully, we didn't have a long drive from the hospital to our home. Much to our surprise, Ally, Aunt Kayse, and Liz had decorated the front of our townhouse, as well as our dining room in celebration of Will's arrival.

Well, hopefully this is the last time you will have to grind through one of my blogs. I have a feeling Brandi will be resuming her duties once she has recovered , which is a good thing for all of us. She does a much better job of creating these blogs than I do.

Friday, September 18, 2009

Day Two from Baylor Hospital

Yesterday had to be one of the best days that I have and may ever experience in my life. Although I wasn't thrilled about being awakened at 2:30 in the morning, I cannot imagine anything that I would have rather done besides meeting my son for the first time. It has been surreal (and a little overwhelming) to think that I am a father. But when I look into these eyes, the rest of the world seems to fade away and become much less important, and I am humbled by such a perfect and amazing gift from God!
Brandi has been absolutely amazing through this whole process. I have seen a side of her that I knew existed but had not seen first hand. She is so patient and loving with him, and I am convinced, after less than 36 hours, that she will be a terrific mother.


Mommy and son are both doing well and trying to get as much rest as possible before the next wave of friends and family arrive later this afternoon. We have been so blessed by the love and support that has been showered on us over the course of the last nine months. We are very much appreciative of the time that our friends and family have taken to visit us and share in this amazing experience. Brandi and Will spent some quality time bonding this morning, and I've already lost count of the number of kisses she's given him.

Will has been much more alert today than yesterday, although he's guaranteed to fall asleep as soon as Brandi attempts to nurse. Here is Will shortly after nursing this morning:



Will and I were able to spend a little time together in the delivery room yesterday but have had much time today to discuss life and what to expect. We have already talked about all the good times we're going to have, especially on every Saturday in the fall.



We have been so fortunate to have our family living close by and were very excited that they were able to be here to witness yesterday's miracle. Will is lucky to have family that already adores him so much and cannot wait to spend more time getting to know him. Little does he know that he has two aunts and an uncle that haven't met him yet, along with great-grandparents who are dying to hold and kiss him.
Here's Will meeting his Mimi (Brandi's Mom) for the first time:


Ally (my Mom) experienced love at first sight in the delivery room with her first grandbaby. She has been so excited about getting to meet Mr. Will Ryan and has been working hard to get her house ready for his arrival.



GJ (my Dad) and NeeNee (Daneille) rushed up to Baylor yesterday morning to make sure they didn't miss Will's arrival and could not wait come back up here today.


It didn't take long for Uncle J to meet his new little buddy before making plans to take his two nephews out to see the Rangers as soon as possible.


Uncle Dustin and Aunt Tricia are enjoying their new roles and are looking forward to living close by to watch Will as he grows up. We're all curious as to Dylan's reaction to meeting his new cousin for the first time. I have a feeling the two cousins will have a great time growing up near one another.


Right now, the plan is to check out of the hospital tomorrow morning and head home for what I can only imagine will be a scary first night with Will. We are so thankful for all of the love and support we have received and will try to keep updating the blog as much as possible over the course of the next several days.
Here's to hoping Will learns to sleep through the night very quickly!

Thursday, September 17, 2009

Live Report from Baylor Hospital

WILL RYAN HAS ARRIVED!!! Brandi and I were finally able to meet our firstborn son, who came into this world at 8:50 this morning weighing 7 lbs 2 ounces and measuring 21 1/4 inches.


Delivery went about as well as could be expected. Labor progressed quickly with contractions starting around 1:00 this morning. We checked into the hospital at 5:40 and began pushing around 7:15. Needless to say, things progressed very quickly and before we knew it, we were looking at this beautiful little boy!


Mom and Will are resting comfortably in their post-partum room, and everything seems to be going really well. We are expecting to stay in the hospital through Saturday morning, but will try to update the blog when possible.

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Nursery Update

Well, today is a new day. Yesterday I had a little mini melt-down as I faced the reality that I may not meet this sweet child that has taken over my body for another week. Now that I have adjusted my expectations, I feel much better today. :) I know it is best for Will to come when he is ready and I really don't want to have to be induced if at all possible. So, for now I will wait...as patiently as I am capable.

We hung a few more things in Will's nursery and it is really starting to look like a ready to go, fully functional nursery! Here are some pics!


This is just a fun picture for Uncle Justin. We call him J. He got Will this adorable monkey and several clever bibs such as this one...

The crib now complete with the mobile.

So I had to put up picture of this beautiful blanket my mom made for Will. I love the colors and am so impressed at her recently resurfaced skills!
With the back side of this gorgeous blanket...
My sister in law actually gave me this several years back. How appropriate is this for Will's room?
So this is still the not-so-finished wall. I figured I could leave it as is for now and will probably find something to fill it up in time.
This is just a fun picture of Will's toy collection so far! We need a toy box!